15 practical ways to create a life you love

My recent family vacation to Cuba inspired me to write down some of my Q3 2017 reflections and goals for the remainder of the year in my personal journal.

My main goal in life is to build a life I don’t need a vacation from.

I understand that some things in life we literally can’t change very easily, maybe you’re a parent with young children or caring for a sick relative or have other huge responsibilities or commitments that seem to limit or restrict you.

You might be at a point in your life where you come to realise who you have become does not reflect your truest desires. You might be living a life you feel you dont have much control over, something others had planned for you, uninspiring, unfulfilled or craving something more.

You can choose to focus on the negative, the difficulty, or you can choose to see differently, create opportunities for change, and ask for help. No matter what your life looks like right now, you can still create a life a happy lifeThe beauty of life is you always have a choice.

If you spend most of your time unhappy than you do feeling fulfilled and inspired, you probably need to re-evaluate your life.

In order to do so, you must be willing to let go of outdated passions and get rid of patterns, behaviours and people that are no longer serving your biggest desires and dreams. Surround yourself with positive, inspiring and uplifting people who will motivate and support you in your quest to building a life you truly love.

In my journal, I had a section where I wrote down some simple ways to create and live a life I truly love which I intend to focus on for the remainder of the year. I ended up with a list of 25 items, some of which were very personal so I took them off this list. In addition to my previous list from “5 Simple ways How to be happier“, here are 15 other practical ways to create a life you love:

 

  1. Be thankful and grateful to God for every great or difficult circumstance  that either helps provide you fulfilment or feedback with lessons learned. Count your blessings
  2. Affirm that your life has intrinsic meaning and value. Be kind to yourself
  3. Be your true and authentic self
  4. Discover and prioritise what really matters to you
  5. Savour and cherish the important moments
  6. Maintain a positive attitude everyday because positive thoughts creates positive things
  7. Be happy for other people’s success
  8. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, show up. Never give up
  9. Always remember that the best is yet to come
  10. Never rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Happiness must come from within
  11. Always trust your instincts. If it feels wrong, don’t do it
  12. Don’t be a people pleaser. Don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t be afraid to say yes
  13. Don’t stress yourself with silly people who don’t even deserve to be an issue in your life
  14. Stay away from drama and negativity. Let go of what you cant control
  15. Learn to live life without constant worries because God will take care of everything if you just have faith and believe.

 

What are other ways can you can create a life you love?

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20 Comments

  1. Dee Anyanwu
    September 1, 2017 / 5:02 pm

    Fantastic post. Thanks for this 😊

    • Folakemi
      September 2, 2017 / 9:13 pm

      Thank you for reading and commenting. Glad you liked it dear xx

  2. Abi
    September 1, 2017 / 7:18 pm

    There’s comparable to listening to your instincts and getting rid nay sayers from your circle. Very good write up Flakky!

    • Abi
      September 1, 2017 / 7:19 pm

      *nothing comparable to

      • Folakemi
        September 2, 2017 / 10:51 am

        Yes dear God gave us our instincts to use it! Nay Sayers have no business in our pursuit of happiness 🙂 Thanks for reading x

  3. Tolu Oyinloye
    September 1, 2017 / 10:00 pm

    Interesting read! Very inspiring.

    • Folakemi
      September 2, 2017 / 10:49 am

      Thank you for reading dear, glad you found it inspiring x

  4. September 2, 2017 / 5:36 pm

    Good reading,these tips can change a person’s life overnight!

  5. September 2, 2017 / 7:51 pm

    Never rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Happiness comes from within – THIS! I love this, this is something I am trying to live by. I don’t need anyone else, but I just need to learn to be happy with myself from within!

  6. Bode
    September 2, 2017 / 11:25 pm

    Lovely piece!!!

    • Folakemi
      September 5, 2017 / 12:41 am

      Thanks dear, glad you liked it. aww so you read my blog regularly ehn:-)

  7. September 3, 2017 / 8:49 am

    Thanks for the inspiring post. I’m always making lists of things to be thankful for and it really helps to improve my mood.

  8. September 3, 2017 / 11:11 am

    I have definately been feeling more thankful for the life my partner and I are creating. I appreciate al the little and big things in my life and it really makes me happy cherishing everything and everyone!

  9. September 3, 2017 / 4:20 pm

    I agree with so many of these statements, especially be your true and authentic self – I can’t stand false people. False people are never happy either x

  10. September 4, 2017 / 12:14 pm

    Get rid of “fake” friends and surrender yourself with people you truly like and love.

    • Folakemi
      September 5, 2017 / 12:44 am

      So true fake friends are the very worst- the sad thing about betrayal is when it doesn’t come from “enemies”. Nothing like being around genuinely lovely people!

  11. September 6, 2017 / 6:36 am

    Being a people pleaser is something that I need to work on… I spent too much of my time trying to make other people happy…

    • Folakemi
      September 6, 2017 / 11:29 pm

      It’s so key to realise that when you say yes to others make sure you’re not saying no to yourself!

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